COACHING FOR
COACHING
FOR
Deciding ME
When it comes time to make a choice that will affect your life, it can be overwhelming to know what really matters to you. That is when you can get some help.
Helping you to:
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Know what fears or dreams are driving you
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Know how to narrow the choices you have
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Go beyond the seduction of the dream or the fear on the night mirror
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See the assumptions you are making
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See what the past has to teach you for this decision
Coaching
For
Deciding Together
When it comes time to make a choice that will affect both of you, it can be twice as hard to sort through what really matters. That is when you can get some help.
Helping you to:
Know what fears or dreams are driving each of you
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Narrow the choices you have
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Go beyond the seduction of the dream or the fear on the night mirror
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See how your different points of view serve you or hinder you
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Use the decision to make you closer together
“may your choices reflect your hopes, not your fears."
— nelson mandela
We are all born as love. Giving love freely and without a doubt that love will be given back in return. And yet over time, we experience a life in which love is not always the default state. As rational beings, we begin to set up barriers that keep us from being hurt.
Unfortunately, these barriers also keep us from love. As we go out into the grand experiment that is life, we now get to decide with whom we can let down the barriers, and when we need to reinforce these barriers.
This is both a matter of skill and discernment. When to let them down and when to reinforce them is not always easy to tell. There is no class in high school, college or even graduate school called, “Vulnerable: When and How”.
We are pretty much left to our own to figure this out. I help to clear those barriers. The barriers that might be keeping you from finding your beloved, or might be keeping you and your beloved from creating the next phase of your partnership, or muddying the process of the big decision you are making.